{"id":273,"date":"2020-11-24T11:16:04","date_gmt":"2020-11-24T11:16:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/?p=273"},"modified":"2020-11-24T11:29:18","modified_gmt":"2020-11-24T11:29:18","slug":"in-tandem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/2020\/11\/24\/in-tandem\/","title":{"rendered":"In Tandem!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Dear Benedict,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My husband and I used to ride a tandem together. Unfortunately I was unable to find a photo of us and want to assure you this was not us!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tandem-2-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-274\" srcset=\"https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tandem-2-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tandem-2-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tandem-2-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tandem-2-1200x900.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><figcaption>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA: Not us on a tandem!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>However, Chapter 34 of your Rule did remind me of our tandeming days. A tandem is a very just form of transport. Each puts in what they can and receives what they need as a result. Unfortunately our country doesn&#8217;t seem to run like a tandem. Too often the one on the front is putting in all the effort whilst the one at the back lays back and enjoys the ride. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8216;Each one according to their need&#8217; you write and it&#8217;s a good Rule. Only too often we inflate our need because of greed rooted in fear. &#8216;But what if we couldn&#8217;t have that?&#8217; we wonder and as a result we order some more or take something that someone else really needs, or reduce our aid budget or &#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the things that has been obvious to me during the COVID19 lock down is I don&#8217;t really need very much. I may have got used to having a lot and it may be challenging to reduce my consumption, but do I really need all these things? It seems not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In your Rule you really challenge the grumblers too. Whoa! I&#8217;d love to see you on Twitter. Today I learnt what some people thought about a young woman, stripped of British citizenship, who is currently trying to return to the UK from Syria. She left UK after being groomed and radicalised on line when a child. One person wrote &#8216;I wouldn&#8217;t want to be her neighbour&#8217;. So I thought of this&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I was young, being radicalised, were you there, were you there?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I was young, being radicalised, were you there?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And the creed and the colour and the name won&#8217;t matter, were you there?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Borrowed from Sydney Carter)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You might want to add your own verses: abused, groomed, trafficked, and so on. Where were we for children and young people like these?  Where are we now? Living next door?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>From the remembered gospel: Jesus said &#8216;which one was the neighbour??&#8217;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Help me live the life of a true neighbour.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>From a Friend of St Scholastica and a Member of the Lay Community of St Benedict.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tandem-3-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-277\" srcset=\"https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tandem-3-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tandem-3-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tandem-3-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tandem-3-1200x900.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/tandem-3.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><figcaption>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA Not me on the back either, but my daughter wearing my trousers!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Benedict, My husband and I used to ride a tandem together. Unfortunately I was unable to find a photo of us and want to assure you this was not us! However, Chapter 34 of your Rule did remind me of our tandeming days. A tandem is a very just form of transport. Each puts &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/2020\/11\/24\/in-tandem\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;In Tandem!&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[57,53],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-273","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-community","category-parable"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/273","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=273"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/273\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":278,"href":"https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/273\/revisions\/278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=273"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=273"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foowr.org.uk\/notesfrombambi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=273"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}